[JetsMan4012]

aiight, im hangin out with this girl i like at the movies in 2 weeks, i know now that i should do everything i would do as if it where a date cause i gotta get her to like me and go out with me officially. she knows i like her, and shes pretty sure from other ppl that im gonna ask her out at the end of the time when were hanging out, and i am, but she doesnt know i am for sure. i have some things i know that i should do, i know what i can do(i know that i can put my arm around her shoulder and i can call her baby, which she actually likes, she told me originally) and i know that i plan on complimentin her a bit like i usually do and stuff like that, i know to do some small talk stuff u know hows ur summer goin, where do u like to go, what kinda movies do u like, and some other stuff. i know i need to be a bit funny, the thing is i cant plan for that cause my jokes r situational jokes always or somethin that would be in a story that i would say that is simalur to one of the things she told me, so i cant really plan for that so im kinda worried about that. anyways, the whole point of this topic was(as the title says) i need help on what else to say and how to make it a fun expierence for her, she said she doesnt know if she likes me or not, shes still deciding. so i need some way to make this fun for her, so any suggestions and thanks for the help

[penningtonpays]

just talk to her about anything, what kinda guys she likes, what she thinks your best quality is, her bra size, and just bullshit until u get the poonanny, than just back away really slowly.

[JetsMan4012]

just talk to her about anything, what kinda guys she likes, what she thinks your best quality is, her bra size, and just bullshit until u get the poonanny, than just back away really slowly.

ok first off, no bra size man, i have a reputation to be a really caring dude, i get what ur sayin with the others though.

[Jetsfan115]

aiight, im hangin out with this girl i like at the movies in 2 weeks, i know now that i should do everything i would do as if it where a date cause i gotta get her to like me and go out with me officially. she knows i like her, and shes pretty sure from other ppl that im gonna ask her out at the end of the time when were hanging out, and i am, but she doesnt know i am for sure. i have some things i know that i should do, i know what i can do(i know that i can put my arm around her shoulder and i can call her baby, which she actually likes, she told me originally) and i know that i plan on complimentin her a bit like i usually do and stuff like that, i know to do some small talk stuff u know hows ur summer goin, where do u like to go, what kinda movies do u like, and some other stuff. i know i need to be a bit funny, the thing is i cant plan for that cause my jokes r situational jokes always or somethin that would be in a story that i would say that is simalur to one of the things she told me, so i cant really plan for that so im kinda worried about that. anyways, the whole point of this topic was(as the title says) i need help on what else to say and how to make it a fun expierence for her, she said she doesnt know if she likes me or not, shes still deciding. so i need some way to make this fun for her, so any suggestions and thanks for the help

your trying too hard and ovrthinking it. its natural to do as a teenager but you should relax, take a deep breath and not overthink it. don't plan what your gonna say just go with the flow.

[ganggreen_ewok]

ok first off, no bra size man, i have a reputation to be a really caring dude, i get what ur sayin with the others though.

Ahhh but don't be too caring, she'll pull the "your like a brother to me," which unfortunately happened to me alot last year. Sounds like you got it down if you can put your arm around her and call her baby, seems like you are set. Time to take it up a notch and buy her dinner or something

[penningtonpays]

Ahhh but don't be too caring, she'll pull the "your like a brother to me," which unfortunately happened to me alot last year. Sounds like you got it down if you can put your arm around her and call her baby, seems like you are set. Time to take it up a notch and buy her dinner or something

gotta hate that "your like a brother" or "your like my best friend", than after that you barley talk again...some best friend

[ganggreen_ewok]

Only because it turns so awkward...Man I got a lot, Imean alot not 3-4 but like 6-7 times last year. I was going good then all of a sudden it happened all at once, so I had to change up the game and I'm back in the groove.

Hey jetman, you have a car? That helps alot

[JetsMan4012]

ok first off:

i dont have a car, im 14

second off:

i still got some compition, this one guy but he hasnt asked her to the movies or any of that. and i think i got the friend thing avioded, cause i compliment her and do the i love you's

[ganggreen_ewok]

You do the "I love you's"? And you aren't going out with her? Thats fucked up.

As for the transportation bit, how do you get to the movies and shit? I waited till I got a car before I actually went I on dates, its a whole lot easier

[JetsMan4012]

no, i tell her i love her, but she doesnt say it, shes not sure if she likes me. however thats how it used to be

[ellisjersey92]

ahhhhh the "best friend" thing....i started talkin to this girl a while back but shed already been talkin to this other guy and they started goin out like a week after i met her. i kept talkin to her and we hung out a lot and shit while she was goin out with the other kid. and i was always there to talk to her when things got messed up with her and the other kid. so they break up a few weeks ago and im thinkin this is my chance. but by then we'd been talkin so long that i was "such a good friend" that nothin else could happen. havent talked to her in 2 weeks..........females...........

[Chadforpresidentin08]

Well first off, JetsMan, I love ya dude, but this is getting a little outta whack.
Hate to drop the atom bomb here, but first off, as a 14 year old, what's the chance of a long term relationship (and at our age that could be like 2 months) here??? And since most likely you won't hang out with her so much, don't put out a bunch of money for her.
That's why I don't want a girlfriend. In order to keep one, I'll have to spend money for her on crap like clothes and makeup. But then I won't be able to buy baseball and football cards, or NFL Sunday Ticket or NFL Network, or get tickets to a Yankees or Jets game (and if I do, I'll have to probably drag her with me, and since it's a girl, a complaining little ass ruining something I'd look forward too).
And dude, I know nothing about these kinda relationships, but you're thinking this out WAY WAY WAY too much. Any time I play a sport and think too much, I end up not thinking on the sport but thinking of thinking on that and I do bad. I've had that happen when I'm hitting in baseball, I'l struckout looking on a pitch down the middle, and then realize that kids my age just try and throw strikes, not mess up your timing and I feel like a dork. My solution is don't think and just clear my head, and then I'm a good hitter
So I'd just trust your brain don't think and do whatever you think is the first thing right that pops in your mind.
And quite frankly, IDK if alot of people really care about it. Dude, learn by experience, I bet that 99.99% of the people who first started dating made mistakes. You'll have to endure those too. So face facts.
Think of yourself as the Jets, you got the tools in place, but you have to learn how to use them. So this year won't be your best year. Then next year, and you'll do better from experience and get half of the wins. Then the year after that, you're Super Bowl bound (or in this dating case I guess we have to switch sports and say about to hit a grand slam???)

[JerseyJet]

Well first off, JetsMan, I love ya dude, but this is getting a little outta whack.
Hate to drop the atom bomb here, but first off, as a 14 year old, what's the chance of a long term relationship (and at our age that could be like 2 months) here??? And since most likely you won't hang out with her so much, don't put out a bunch of money for her.
That's why I don't want a girlfriend. In order to keep one, I'll have to spend money for her on crap like clothes and makeup. But then I won't be able to buy baseball and football cards, or NFL Sunday Ticket or NFL Network, or get tickets to a Yankees or Jets game (and if I do, I'll have to probably drag her with me, and since it's a girl, a complaining little ass ruining something I'd look forward too).
And dude, I know nothing about these kinda relationships, but you're thinking this out WAY WAY WAY too much. Any time I play a sport and think too much, I end up not thinking on the sport but thinking of thinking on that and I do bad. I've had that happen when I'm hitting in baseball, I'l struckout looking on a pitch down the middle, and then realize that kids my age just try and throw strikes, not mess up your timing and I feel like a dork. My solution is don't think and just clear my head, and then I'm a good hitter
So I'd just trust your brain don't think and do whatever you think is the first thing right that pops in your mind.
And quite frankly, IDK if alot of people really care about it. Dude, learn by experience, I bet that 99.99% of the people who first started dating made mistakes. You'll have to endure those too. So face facts.
Think of yourself as the Jets, you got the tools in place, but you have to learn how to use them. So this year won't be your best year. Then next year, and you'll do better from experience and get half of the wins. Then the year after that, you're Super Bowl bound (or in this dating case I guess we have to switch sports and say about to hit a grand slam???)

I agree. Samething happens to me when I'm about to catch a high pop(baseball) or long pass (football) I drop it. But when I have fun, I do great. Sandlot....Sandlot....Sandlot....

[Jetsfan115]

i know its sad but true

the more of an a$$hole you are the more women you'll get, the nicer you are the less you get. its simple and i'm sure if u look at your friends you'll see the ones that are a$$holes get alot more women.

[ganggreen_ewok]

You don't have to be an asshole all the time though, just around her, but not to her.

[Jetsfan115]

You don't have to be an asshole all the time though, just around her, but not to her.

yeah but u also don't want to pretend to be one

[ganggreen_ewok]

So act like a natural asshole

[JetsMan4012]

So act like a natural asshole

even if i wanted to, it would be too late to

[ganggreen_ewok]

f*** it dude, you are gonna have to take a risk sooner or later...make your move, and good luck to you

[JetsMan4012]

yea, its actually happenin this friday now